Originally Posted By: Nutty Chick

On reflection I did this more for ME than him. I wanted him to be dependant on me. I treated him like he was unable to do anything himself..


Me too. I'm changing that. She can do things herself and is doing them.

I'm not preventing her scheduled 'visits' right now and she really doesn't come and go as she pleases.

What I AM doing is setting more boundaries for when she IS here on her 'visitations'. And I'm using the 'Separated' word more and more.

It's real. We are separated. She wants a divorce. I don't but it's not my choice. She can have her divorce if that's what she really wants.

It isn't my job to judge or punish her. Just to be real.

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