Sorry to hear that things have not improved but even more sorry that you are still agressive or angry.... I used to be accused of that often. T, you need to answer the following question. Do you really want your W back? If the answer is yea, then you HAVE TO find a way to become friends. Put your ego and animosity aside. It's not about who is right or wrong, it's about do YOU still want to try. If the answer is no, than you should not care what she thinks about you as long as the kids do not suffer in any way. Take it easy T, J210