I did not take your comments to be harsh, not at all. But thank you for your concern.
Also, if you ever feel I need to get a 2x4 then you should hit me with it.
After the things H, in his state has said to me, I can take anything. Nothing will ever hurt as much as him saying things like, "I have left you." "I don't think I am in love with you." "You made me unhappy." All that has helped to toughen me right up.