It is yet again what I have been trying to tell you and others...
His wife tried everything... He was with her best friend.. back and forth... same story as most all on here...
UNTIL... He realized his wife had let go and was out running around and having fun with the opposite sex yada yada yada.......
Go read what he says now...
Read and observe and study why he would suddenly wake up just after she lets go....
Same small thread that runs through most reconciliation...
It is your clue. You HAVE to show her YOU have let go. THAT is the secret to getting them back. You have to do it everyday, in every way. No backslides. NONE.
Go out and start enjoying your life and party up a storm. Play cards every night.. Be a slob.. Watch football all day... Go flirt with some women.......
Do what AinO wants to do... Be selfish...
That should be your # 1 goal because it is usually the thing that turns a wayward around.... letting go... reaching the point where you are saying "who needs this, it is only bringing me pain and misery?"
You don't need it...... 0nce you show them you don't need it is when they turn around....
THAT is the KEY...... The key that opens the door. Stop using keys that don't fit...
