Hey, MC! Thinking about what you said about making him want/miss the marriage/things he wants from me.
He wants/misses our friendship. I'm sure of that. Does that I mean I should stop being friends with him? My coach says I should build on the friendship foundation, and my friend the psychologist/theologist maintains that detaching is the wrong tactic - of course he also told me I was correct in ML with my H this weekend. But I see the whole dropping the rope/LRT thing too.
Ah, confusion. I need to stop overthinking things. It's my brain that consistently trips me up in life....