Unfortunately, yes he does, or at least did as recent as the week before deployment. During his two weeks of POM leave, he spent the first week with her in MI--the last week of vacation for the kids before the new school year started. Then, the week he was supposed to be "home" with them, he had to spend two days on the ship due to a pending hurricane, a day in the house because of a tropical storm, and the kids were at school during the day the days he was home.
I do not know if he is still communicating with her or not. The OW is 15 years older than my DH, 10 years older than me. Her kids are 19 and 17. Much more attractive than a houseful of small kids, huh, especially when one has an emotional disorder.
Mac, I am thrilled for your news! Take things slow and give her space and time to get used to the repentant you. If possible, get connected to a counselor through church. They will be decidedly pro-marriage. Also, check into Retrouvaille classes in your area. There are many in piecing who have been and swear by what they learned from them--Some posters I can think of right away are Dr. Love, whatdidido, Sara, BobbiJo, and recently, techguy went this weekend.
Stick around and let us help you rebuild and restore your marriage. We all support you in this new step.
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
