Well, H's family is behind me. Not sure about mine. I have not said anything to my parents... I just can't. My youngest son found out yesterday and is furious. Talked to him for a while this morning and he says that I have no respect for myself for staying with H thru this. He says that everyone in our town will now be talking. Grrrr! I knew that I would have to defend myself to people, just didn't expect that I would have to do it to my kids. Guess it makes sense. He is hurt by H's behavior too.
Oh well. We will all get thru this. Christmas this year though my just be H and I alone.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.