Strong, As an update for myself, my wife has allowed me to move back in while we reconcile. I can not tell you how happy that made me.
I think I agree with the poster that said maybe too much play by play with the family encounters. In the end with me it was the lack of information that kept me wondering. It was her independence that drew me back to her in part. Like I said before, she boxed up my things and put them in the garage. She began to wipe my memory from her daily routine and it enlightened me. There were other reasons also as I never stopped loving her but those drove me to my senses. Also as an ex-navy guy I know how important information form the home front is. Right now he does not have to wonder what is going on.
