Neilh,

Keep GAL. Keep having fun. Keep moving forward with your life. And the next time she calls for anything....be too busy....although that doesn't apply to things about the kids. When you pick her up her cigs (which you should discourage anyway), you're saying, "I'm stick hung up on you." When you say, "sorry, I can't. I'm in the middle of something.", you are saying, "you are not priority #1). She has to chase.


You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer