AmyC you know me by now. Do you honestly think I am going to do that to her? Absolutely not. I need to keep the reality if front of her, that's all. There is an increase, i know I am going to eat. Dance Lessons are $7.
She neds to know that there is an increase and that it is a burden to me. Remeber, she is the one skipping along with the OM without a care in the world. She spends money she owes for her car insurance and spends it onherself and going out. I do not get to go outy every wekend and every thursday night partying. I have responsiblities and bills to pay.
No I am not being vindictive, but she needs to have this reality kept in front of her. She needs to know that when it ends, it all ends. Again, you have told me she is not rational right now, I am the responsible one right now, she is not. I can't have her keep calling my house form his mother's house or his cell phone, it is a slap in the face and it is rubbing salt into and already gangrenous wound.
The car insurnace needs to get done so that my contact with her goes to absolute zero. She does not know me, nor do I know her. She has no presence in my house or my life. I am fighting for that to come back, I really am, but if she doesn't see an occassional dose of reality, what chance do I have?
