PM ... thinking of you... you sound great and have come so far in this process.

I need to call DB coach myself.. I clearly have backstepped bad and haven't wanted to "save" marriage mode.. but now that we've had talks and he is planning on filing in January I need to close my mouth too .... and last two days I've felt really good and like I'm detaching ...

You need to hold H accountable and glad to see the coach and IC is focusing on this too... it keeps him little more grounded and I would bring up Christmas and what is plans are in regards to the kids...

hang in there... thanks as always for the great advise you give me ... I know I haven't always followed it but I am going to do better now..


Me: 38/H:40
M:7yrs
TG: 10yrs
2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old
Bomb 8/22/08
OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old
Moved out 9/22/08

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