TxMom, here are a couple of links to websites that have helped me put things in perspective.

http://www.beyondaffairs.com
http://www.DearPeggy.com

I have the same problem with my W. Even if she wanted back into our M, I'm not sure I could trust her. I see now that it is a matter of "honesty." It is all about communication. Read through the list of articles on the second site.

Also, I'd like to get in touch on FB too.

John
Me 56 W 46 D7
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