Phoenix - I'm done looking at that garbage. It's not helping me detach.
W is trying to punish me over the daycare sitch. Getting the old "you're not trying to work it me", "What's going on Monday that you can't get them (this time it followed w/ a "nevermind" right after)", "we can't work together", "I see your too busy","don't worry about going to the denist this weekend because your so busy".
I validated a little "I understand this may be difficult for you." etc, etc. Told my W what I was going to do, go to the denitst, etc. And left her to her own misery. This differnce now is that I'm not falling into her emotional termoil. That is her problem.
I have plans for a little vacation this weekend to celebrate my b-day. I won't be home until Monday afternoon. W doesn't need to know that.