at the danger of sounding like a @itch.. 'cause you let him. How else can he feel it's ok to talk to you like that and get physical with you? Why do let him come over to see you? you even allowed him to kiss you and all.
If you really wanted this to stop then when he comes you meet him at the driveway, exchange/get whatever he'd there to drop off and send him off without any chitchat nor a chance for him to get fresh. If you are all business and let him know at the first chance that he wants to be stupid that you will not tolerate his behavior and you keep being consistent he should back off. Keep exchanging kids else where and dont' allow him into your place anymore.
And you dont have to give him any "legitimate" reason why you need your alimony, it's YOUR money by law and let him know that in x days your L will be contact him him if he doesn't pay. That money was granted to you, and even you felt like buying 20 purses with it it's your business, you dont' need to give him a good excuse.
Yup, I do sound like a @itch! but I have learn this past few weeks that only distance gives a woman (or man) sanity from crazy WASs.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
