{{{Amy}}} I will remember that about the men and women, I don't think I'd heard that before..ok..we will definitely have to work on it Now that it's in my brain, I will truly hear myself saying it more Thank you my friend and I appreciate your empathy!! I dunno if it would be easier for him to go or not..nights like last night it would have been LOL
{{{Mules}}} With the phone calls..I don't EVER get them from hub, and not that I would expect him TO call and say "hey..how are ya"..LOL..but I DON"T appreciate the once in the blue moon that he calls to gripe me out about something I Didn't even know or wasn't communicated properly in the first place..that's what tweaked me
About the dog, that IS what I asked him about taking the dog with him and he was like "I can't right now"..but..you know, you are right..I shouldn't be like "ok well I have to keep the dog because you can't"..I should be like, "well I don't have time to take the proper care of him here, so you need to figure that out before you go" or something like that. HE always throws in that I was the one who wanted the dog..but, in reality we were both looking for a dog, he chose the type of dog he wanted us to get, we found one at a shelter, and I DID make the "let's go ahead and get him now" plea, so he alwayas throws that back at me LOL! But..good point and in a few days I may broach that subject again. He's just a BIG dog and hard to handle sometimes..my daughter and I would much prefer a little dog (I know..a girly dog LOL..but still)
You are right about the drama, my hub has seemed pretty angry about who knows what the past few days, not really directed at me, I can tell when he's playing his xbox live, he's like yelling at the guys or whatever..I do need to work on not getting sucked into it..Sat night I was really good about not doing that..LOL..but I think just the 3-4 interactions about "was this not done, why is this happening, did you do this" was more than I could deal with from him...
Well..Mules..I have been good and bad about doing stuff for Tawnya..a night last week, went out with daughter and had a great time, just goofing off, Friday went to walk around the mall just to get OUT of the house, Sat and Sun I worked, BUT..starting this Wed I"m going to take a taiji (like tai chi) class and I'm VERY excited about this!!
Thank you very much for checking in and I am doing a bit better today..going to take son jeans shopping and then take daughter to look at cars later today..so my day should be pretty good and light
Tawnya
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