Hey, Beth! I just wanted to pop in and offer a *hug* and say that I thought of you and your sitch this weekend. I know how hard it is to detach, and his health sitch doesn't make things easier. You have a great heart, so I know it's got to really, really hurt.
I wish I had some advice, but unfortunately I don't. I'll remember you in my prayers and hope that you have a happy week full of fun and lightness.