No one here can tell you when "The Time" is to finally give up on your marriage and agree to divorce. I myself had to actually FILE for divorce in order to get my wife's attention, not as a bluff, but as a last resort.
Also, there's a difference between DROPPING THE ROPE and GIVING UP. Sometimes you have to do the former, to avoid having to do the latter. But you CERTAINLY don't have to go along with this if you don't want to!!!
