so i've been thinking....i know, scary thought..and usually gets me in trouble, but i think this is what's been going on, and why my W is acting the way she's been.
the thing that got me thinking and taking an objective look at my sitch is something Gucci loafer said on A's thread about PAs and EAs.....and the actions of the WAW
Every time my W starts to sense me drifting away from her..towards my independence from her feelings and to move forward...and any time rumors hit her that i've "moved on"....she drags me back by initiating contact about something mundane that i can do for her...
case in point:
July...i know rumors hit her that i'm starting to date. she becomes overly friendly towards me, invites me over to spend time with the kids and her, asks me to get her cigs.....then drifts away again...as she is sure i'm not going anywhere
September..again, i'm starting to GAL my ass off with work and such. same things happen....get pix messages of kids, friendlier discussions, etc...asks for cigs again....etc...then drifts away as she is sure i'm not going anywhere....
Now november...again, rumors start to drift towards her that i'm starting to date..i start to GAL even more...more social stuff..shes super friendly towards me...vents to me about things in her life....wants to spend xmas with the 4 of us.....then drifts away...
am i seeing things wrong here, or is this a pattern..? a "script" if you will.......?
Last edited by Neilh23; 12/08/0802:33 PM.
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
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