If I would have acted as I should have, my request to cut him out MIGHT have been received better.
Nope. This is where you are fooling yourself and taking on too much of the blame. STOP THIS.
She wouldn't cut him out because she still has feelings for him. What you did was the RIGHT THING.
It is time you quit beating yourself up and put the blame where it goes. Are you reading the same texts and emails from those two lovers that I am reading?
Maybe you should find yourself a "friend" huh?
LOL (I know I would for sure)
Sometimes people don't like a taste of their own medicine...
Hold strong. It can't work with him in the picture and at this point you won't win a "who is the better man" battle.