Funny you mentioned "long view." Last night for the first time I wondered how I would react if X married OM. I would hate for that to happen and have reason to hope it won't as she has said on more that one occasion, (about 1 year ago the last time) "it isn't like that." I feel I can hold on as long as it takes.
If she gets married however that would be the end for me.
I do find it intriguing that she has more contact with me when OM is out of town, almost like she doesn't want him to know (He's out of town now and she invited me for dinner last night).
Last night I also decided to lose a few more pounds and do a little wardrobe makeover. I'm going to have some fun with this regardless of the outcome.
Heck if you're not having fun why do it?
Last edited by sleeper; 12/08/0812:35 PM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
