My H also said that he said yes to things he didn't want to! They will only see things the way they want to and not as it actually, was, is or happened! Hope you decide how to sign off the card. We had been married 20 years with 2 girls and it was very hard on them both. The youngest was 8/9 at the time and tried very hard not to take sides and H said she really helped. The older D (15) was much harder on him and really struggled with the whole thing. She was very cautious when we got back together but is fine now and a usual 17 year old! I just felt that through it all he wasn't the person I knew and was suffering so badly. It is very hard to see someone you love so confused and miserable.
