I fully appreciate what you're saying but we were together 8.5 years before this all started and there were definitely no third parties during that time.
The reason I know is that we have always been so toghether in everything, i.e. it's been virtually impossible for her to create the double life necessary to have an affair. We have literally known everything about each other's lives.
The only reason I have carried on DBing is that this is so out of character for her however, the longer I am at this the more forget what she used to be like.
I am seriously wondering whether she is having a MLC or an onset of multiple personality disorder.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
