Let's just say she and OM break up. Then what? How long before you are in the same situation with another OM. There are literally millions of OM who could join your little family. It is not simply a matter of this affair ending. If she enjoys, and I think she does, having 2 men in love with her, then she will set the scenario up again. This gives her security. She knows that if you break up with her she always has him. Or vice versa. And if she gets down to just one man, either you or him, then she will have to find another. In her mind, she is too much woman for just one of you. Or said another way, neither of you is enough man to satisfy her.
