It's not a battle nic...she is trying to control me. I don't call her for a blow by blow toy inventory. There really is no need for the call. We don't need 'toy calls' anymore. She once tried to have me arrested.

If this puts things in perspective....her mother gave me two 8x10's of her holding our babies a long time ago. I was cleaning up my office tonite and came across them. I put them on her night table tonite. I can't look at them anymore. Biggest anti-DB'ing thing I've ever done in awhile. I don't feel bad about it...she left a handful of pix similarly on my papers a few weeks ago.

It's over and I need to clean up and move on. Once they harpoon you, at least for me, it kills something. I have no need for the wedding album, video, pix of her, etc.

(BTW..she was out 'til 3Am last night...toy phone calls??????)

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;