I think you just get to a point where you just need a break, you want to scream, you feel cheated that your family is torn apart, that not many people you know have a life like this, and you also feel tired from being a mom and dad to your kids!

I think your H may slowly see that you have taken on so much since he has been gone.

I am glad he is helping you out by getting the kids or taking you all out to a meal.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19