TxMom, I too was doing what you were doing, DBing a little and then had my "need to knows". I have gone semi-dark and it is helping my sanity a little bit. I am going for legal advice on Tuesday. Have you gone yet? We need to be prepared and at least see what will happen. Tx is not the best for D, with no legal seperation and community property. Unless you fight for fault for adultery which might be hard to prove. I think it is a good idea for the girls/dog to go to his place. More reality checks for H. I think we are all feeling it with the holidays which make it worse.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
