.... I also have been carrying a lot of guilt after Thursdays events with W because of some of the things she said, putting responsibility for everything on me, drinking, my depression and me not 'wanting her'.....
I hope that last Thursday will be the last time you ever allow her to lay the lie on your conscience.
Sure, you could have done things differently but the same is true of your wife.
50/50 Frank.
Don't try to carry her half.
Don't try to make her carry it.
Just tend to yourself.
If you do that properly, you won't have time to worry about what she is or isn't doing.
