Piecing Friends, I don't think the email had much impact. She doesn't bellieve I'm interested in pursuing physical intimacy.
Hopefully, this incident will be the catalyst to move my W from friend to girlfriend status. I will need to be in pursuit, and let her know that I'm interested in physical contact.
Since I'm in pursuit, it will be on my terms, and at my own pace. I'm going to work on evening moments in front of the fireplace, and sitting on the couch when watching a program together. These may lead to sex or foreplay.
I'm at a point where I'm feeling closer to my W, so am interested in moving to the next stage.
Today, I asked her to sit on the couch with me, and I cuddled her whiie she fell asleep for a nap. I don't want her to be starved for affection. It's time to let my guard down, and start treating her like a girlfriend, versus a platonic friend.
We'll experiment and check results.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
