{{Tx}} All I can say is WOW..thru all of that, in all honesty, you sound at a GOOD place, if that makes sense, totally detaching and setting your boundaries..and I think that's great about the kids and the dog having to go somewhere else..welcome to reality "dear hub"..

I think you DB well enough but there are times when things need to be said and times when they don't..and it sounds like those happened for you \:\)

Have you worked on having more stuff to do when it's weekends without the babies?? I can't imagine how tough it is for you to do that and I know, if it were me, I'd have to try to occupy my time, at least until I went "hey..I can take a long bath and no one will be knocking on the door yelling for mom" \:D

Tawnya

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