Hey Red, I hear you about getting the D's confused by all the time you spend together. On one hand, the end goal, I suppose, is that if we get divorced, we keep family times as nice and comfortable as possible because it is really good for everyone to be able to stay close and enjoy some family times.
(I always think of Bruce Willis and Demi Moore when I say that--Bruce went to Demi's wedding and they spend birthdays and stuff together all the time from what you see in the magazines, but I digress )
But when you aren't divorced yet, I struggle with what is nice together time and what is allowing for cake-eating...I am glad he invited you over to his place, I don't remember you mentioning that before. I would guess if you asked him why he was inviting you over and spending time with you, he would deflect or say something about how he still cares about you even if he doesn't want to be married....some other sort of stall tactic like my H uses...
I wonder sometimes if they are sad confused little people or just want to play family without having the commitment......
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