Hi Your sitch must very differcult. Everytime i see H now and we dont live together - i imagine him touching Ow and I almost am sick. I dont believe he has actually had sex yet with her ( he told me I would be first to know ) Goody !
I would ML in your situation ( if it was safe sex ) as it does make you feel better and closer. What would happen if you told OW or somehow got the message to her that you were stil sleeping with H. Perhaps you could send a phamplet on Sexual Transmitted Diseases to her home ! With a note that she might like to get checked since you were all sharing . Ha Ha
Today I am fed up. I slept for a while without sleeping tablets and drramed I was back with H, so hence a little depressed this morning. I am sure we are all going to get through this , and hopefully with M in tact.
I think my H may be playing a dangerous game . you hurt me , so I am going to hurt you ! etc etc. Trouble is , men don't have any sense of when enough is enough. Woman tend to check each time , if they have gone to far.
does your H hear you when you speak. ie if you are in a room of others talking and you say something does he answer ? Mine did yesterday and it is the first time for a while. Small change and not sure when I will be able to check if it still there in future . Just an observation.
I am in New Zealand so am facing summer holiday without him. This will be tough.
