I've never posted to you but have been following your story closely. I think you're doing a great job and I'm finding strength in your strength.
My sitch is a little different in that my H tried to sweet talk me into a D. I don't know what's worse - nice liers or mean liers.
And as for you wrecking 2 marriages, please excuse me while I state the obvious: Un-f'ing believable!!!
Stay strong. Deep down inside, your W knows you're right.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10