Working today...will update 1 day at a time off and on. Tuesday At home after work doin regular family stuff...W was starting to get sick so she was holed up in her cave. Made a few trips down to the laundry room which is across from Ws cave...door was closed and I could hear her talking. Inquiring minds want to know....I stopped in front of door to listen. She was talking to OM on the phone....heard a little and walked away. Her talking to him in OUR house all "lovey dovey" really burned me up inside. I opened the door...repeated some stuff I had heard her saying...asked her to stop talking to him our of respect for OUR family in OUR home. Of course she was pissed! You can't control who I talk to....I have a rite to privacy..etc etc. I told her she was rite about privacy...but talking to him in our house was unacceptable. I told her I can't stop her...but at least go outside in your car and do it!! Some of the stuff I heard her saying disgusted me....not sexual talk....but how "regular" the stuff was. Stuff WE would talk about just a few months ago...that's what really set me off. Of course there was the "you always make me fee better when I talk to you" kinds stuff...made me sick...
Gotta do some work....will get in some more on my next break.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
