Should I tell s10 that when he is 12 he can choose where to stay?
Can he really choose then? I would think 2 years would be "unreal" to a 10 year old. Isn't waiting for Christmas difficult enough???
I can't believe your son is restricted from calling or texting you while he is at his dad's. That seems cruel! Hopefully you can get your son into counseling and the counselor can help in that part of communication. He should be able to call you whenever he wants; and when he is with you he should be allowed to call his dad (IF he wanted to).
