how crazy your week has been. I'm really proud of you for still loving this boy. It could be very easy to feel some bitterness because in a way he why things are so hard. It's not his fault of course, and really he is very lucky to have you.
I really think your H IS trying to make it work with you, but from history, he's never had to be afraid of you. It is much easier for him to be afraid of her than you. I don't think that means you need to start putting up ultimatums, or being crazy like her, and I think in the end, you will win this because of how your handling it. It's not going to happen easily or quickly and I'm happy to see that H was planning to take his mom. How did he react when he found out you told her about s? I would think that wouldn't have been a good reaction, but it must not have been that bad.
I also agree that it really doesn't matter when the sex stopped. It only matters if it stays stopped. I really think that you need to figure out in what way you can talk to H more about the paternity thing. In some way make it sound like his idea. He is not going to want you to tell him what to do, he already has her doing it, so you've got to be strategic.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Sorry I dropped out in your last crisis. I am still around somewhat. I will catch up on your sitch this week. I should know later this week when I will be down your way. As weird as it is I got your back.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
well, the ow told the truth the WAS an abortion before this child. i am sick, i am speechless
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Smile, smile, smile!!! We all love you. Remember, what does BG want, what does BG deserve, what does BG need? Sometimes the BIGGEST thing you can do is be true to yourself and we will all be here with you.
Later.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
((((BG)))) I hope you are sleeping, warm and snug and tucked in with good dreams.
Keep your head up sweatheart. Don't let this evil thing change your path. What's done is done. All that matters is what happens from here on. Remember your boundaries. Do not let her drag you down into her level of filth.
An abortion before the boy? So she's evil AND stupid! Not you. You are beautiful and you have us.
I hope you are going to church today. Gather your kids around you and breathe.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Any deer to report? Last night looked out and there was a herd in the back pasture, around 25 spread out between the pasture and wheat field. I thought if I only had a tag! LOL. Been so long since I hunted, I wouldn't hit the broad side of the barn! Have a great day, take care of yourself, relax, watch some football this afternoon. GO CHIEFS!!
wow. your H admitted it was true? you asked him about it?
I'm sorry, my H did the same thing with his gf from highschool, the girls dad made her do it supposedly. It made me sick just to think my H had a baby before me and they did you know what. I'm really sorry. We can try to be thankful that that baby doesn't have to go thru all the pain that this 2 year old will go thru or has gone thru.
(((BG)))
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
SHWEW!!!!! woah that was close!!! But now we're 10 and 3!!!!!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
