H showed up today with a tan (from going away with OW last weekend). I said nothing.
H cleared the table except for my things. I said nothing.
Otherwise, things are as usual. He's very avoidant. He avoids being alone with me. When with kids we act like everything is OK. When kids leave the room, he leaves with them. I can tell OW is still very much in his life right now. I am hoping against hope that reality is creeping into their world. With the holidays coming up, I hope it gives him a headache thinking about how to divide up his time.
I asked for his advice on the kids, hoping it would start him thinking about the deeper issues of parenting, other than playdate stuff. How to deal with the more difficult situations, DB coach taught me this. He said he has to think more about it.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
