Hi Creed, Well well! wonders will never cease. I guess as usual time will tell. This is strange as last night I actually read some of my early posts and thought about my MIL. (I have never gone back and done that even after all these years). It must be 7 years no contact for me though so for her to approach me would be a miracle of epic proportions. I still think of x on aniversaries-not sure he does the same. My 35th wasn't too bad but his 60th birthday was a bad day for me-took me by suprize as I consider myself well healed. Enjoy the holidays and all good wishes to you and yours for 2009.