I am at home doing some yard work today and copying a bunch of DVD home movies so STBXW has her own copies. It is sad to look back and see that there was nothing in our previously happy marriage that would justify a sane person to want to leave. I wonder what STBXW will feel when see watches these.
KerryK,
My friend, I have no idea..... I boxed up several love letters, card and pictures a few weeks ago with exW's stuff... exW picked them up at "our" house.......
My new W believes exW has kept all the love letters, card and pictures to look at "later".... Whatever "later" means......
The thing is I honestly think she will look back at this whole sitch and wish she had done everything differently.....
I understand all too well about the "previously happy marriage"... I think your exW will look back in 5 or 10 years and wish she had been a faithful W....
I wish I had all the answers, my friend........ I do know people do selfish and immature things..... That is just life.....
The really sad thing is people do these things full well knowing what they are doing.... Some say stupidity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results... I RESPECTFULLY disagree.... Stupidity is knowing what you are about to do is stupid and others telling you what you are about to do is stupid AND doing it anyway.....
I wish you, your family and GF all the best....
Take Care,
RMG
Last edited by RMG77739; 12/07/0807:27 AM.
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