W and I have settled on all financial issues, parenting, etc....i bawled my eyes out for about a half hour, drank like a fish...but I'm ok now. this was before thanksgiving.
W this week wanted the kids for a certain night next week to take them to a party. She had been totally ignoring anything I sent to her, then she sends me a 'nice' kiss ass email to try and get the kids for a night. I just simply replied that based upon her behavior towards me and that she really is only nice when she needs something from me, she chose to not have a family on that day, sorry...(it was my day with the kids).
then....I get this email.... "You're right...I did choose to give up on our family. I made a mistake. Our family is broken because of me. I am sorry. But there is nothing I can do at this point. I fell out of love and I can't force my feelings. And quite honestly, when you act like this, it is really hard to even start to move in that direction. I am only doing this for the kids. You get to make these decisions when they are with you and so you get control."
finally...she admits its all a mistake? I dont know what to think about this, but she is certainly sounding like she's ok living with the consequences. Its the classic ilybnilwy line and that the WAW at some point figures out they made a mistake, but cannot figure out how to fix it..so quitting is just easier I guess. How frustrating.
