I do not even begin to know enough about MLC to say whether your W is or is not in MLC. I have only recently come to the conclusion that mine is having a MLC, hence the name of my thread. I will say from the reading I have done it can manifest in very different ways for each individual.
Maybe you should check in with some of the men who post in this forum who know their wives to be in MLC. That might give you some better perspective.
Thanks for the sympathy and support. All of us here are suffering through loss whether it is due to MLC or whatever the cause. It helps to have people like you offering kind words.