I guess at this point I don't have any expectations right now it is hard living in the same house together. She is making every effort to not be home and has been staying at OM place still insisting that nothing is going on. We are in the process of a legal separation. She is the one pushing it.
I have a question do you have any thoughts on how I can DB better when my W is constantly asking for money, she is being very matter of fact and cold about splitting up stuff even being unreasonable. I am making every effort in being calm, she is trying to push my buttons. I am trying to be dark because I know she tries to use my emotions to get what she wants. I have been confident the last couple of days and have held my ground. It seems to have worked a bit. Tonight she called just to ask about how cleaning the freezer went, I found this odd that she would call about that.
My W is looking for her own place and I feel a bit helpless. I have been talking to MIL but have not talked about relationship stuff. Right now I look at my W and I feel numb I don't even know her anymore. I can't even think about her staying at OM's. Her brother was over today and is still furious with her. He says the whole family doesn't know who she is anymore.
Right now I am focused on GAL but I am still going dark. Although I still have to talk about splitting up stuff. I am going to try and do what my coach said and inject humor into the process.
What is this alternate universe you are talking about.
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
