And I'm Still Learning

[Tawnya]

{{Beth}} You know..this VERY thing just came up in the thread I was just on..when you said your activities made you wish your hub was there with you..and a very wise person said that you need to reframe your thought of the "perfect family" to include who is in it now..if it's just YOU..then so be it..make the most of that time..he said that, if you keep thinking of your spouse not being part of the activity and you feel incomplete somehow, you aren't really moving forward.. (I'm paraphrasing a bit, but you catch my drift

I had to smile when you said you were stubborn (another common trait..I think we are sisters from another mother LOL)..

AND..I hope this makes you laugh, cause it did me when I read it and thought this, when you said "I refuse to quit on him" I thought of Night at the Museum parodying Brokeback Mountain saying "I ain't quitting you"..LOL..if you haven't seen Night at the Museum, it's pretty cute

Hugs!

Tawnya