Its been a few days so I thought I would add something. Not much has changed, gone on in my sitch but I did have a very humbling experience last nite. while not DB related it was a good lesson for me. We had a house fire last night, always seems more sad this time of year. Anyway a young single mother @25 and her very young infant were able to escape the fire. Their hous and all tis contents were destroyed. While we were cleaning up 3:30am, a lady walked up to us and asked if she could give this young family some money. She wanted to be a secret friend. She gave us $1,000 cash to give to these people. Talk about random act of kindness. This lady is my hero. Giving of herself to people she didn't even know. Atrue angel. Makes me think that what ever pain I am going through and what I feel my troubles are there is always somebody more in need than I of smpathy. I'm out to GAL tonight. My works Christmas party for my platoon. Going to have a great time and no contact with now XW. Taking me a lot of effort not to call or txt her. She did let me know she has been having a couple of bad days. Even called last night to say good night even though she said she ddin't want to talk. Up and down where we stop nobody knows.