Hi Beth, I've read some of your situation but not all. There have been so many times I have read your posts and thought to myself, "She really gets it." You've chosen some very life-enhancing activities to pursue. I wanted to tell you that I think that your mindfulness will definitely pay off.
The only thing I have to add is that at first I was terrifed at the prospect of taking some of our "anniversary trips" alone. However, I found that I really enjoyed myself. I remembered that when we travelled together H complained on a fairly regular basis. Being on my own was a truly liberating experience. Not only that, I had FUN! There is something very nice about not having to negotiate the schedule with another person.
Good for you, I really think you are doing all the right things.
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
