No, it's not you--I reported this a good 6 weeks ago. It did the same thing then that it's doing to you now.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012