I think you are right Garry. However, I have to think about what will happen when we go to court over custody of our son.

I also did not really want to let her know that I know she is in California. This should be good for me as once again she has chosen OM over spending time w/ her own S.

I gave her the opportunity to get caught up in lies, but she actually "sort-of" told the truth when I told her where S was and that we would exchange later.

I could have made this all blow up and created some drama by taking my S and not telling her - which is what I would have liked to do, but I have to think about what is the right thing to do.