I'm with all of you... I really wake up and can NOT believe my H has been so selfish and has left me for another women (or girl) :-) affairs I get, not right, but get how they can happen but to allow yourself to fall for them, give your heart, leave your kids, it is amazing...
But like what sandycay said... I guess when we do meet another the little trust can grow to the big trust... but I will never 100% trust another man again and probably shouldn't ... should always be aware and make my marriage the best it can be everyday....
SS - do you want to try to find me on facebook so we can chat offline or since we live so close I could leave info somewhere and you could pick it up.. either way hope you are ok...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08