I forgot to add that H also deposited the child support/alimony into our account and was going to give me the debit card yesterday so I can get groceries, etc. He lost the card. Forgot D's backpack last night (it was in a pile with the other stuff they had). I of course am not worried at all, said no problem it'll probably turn up by the time he drops the kids off tonight or he can give it to me Sunday. I think he is losing it even more than usual lately....I did open a new bank account just for me of course yesterday and gave him the routing info so he can deposit future $$ into that account. Karen
