Im late in the comments.. sorry.. I'm so proud of you. You did wonderfully.. you have grown from this, his problems, his issues no longer will be yours.
It takes a strong woman to do what you did, you should be proud of yourself and how well you have handled all of this crapola.
Your a wonderful person , and deserve only the best, accept nothing less if there is a next time around.
(((((((Big HuGE hugs))))))))
Take care of you and those kids!!
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.