Why is it that my X still insists on having sex w/ me??? Is he a manwh***?? You would think they way he pursues me (constantly) that he was being deprived of any sex!!! Which I seriously doubt...
Now I understand why in the past he would insits I drop the kids off to his sister ,who btw lives in my neighborhood, in order for him to supposedly just go straight there and then drop them off after his visit. Its funny how I can predict what he will do about 90% of the time (whenever I give him any head space).
The other day xsisnlaw had me drop off the girls to her place and told me to tell x to pick them up there, she baught them clothes & they were to try them on.
Well..it had been around three weeks since I had been avoiding X at all cost, no meeting him half way for kid drop offs anymore , no seeing him not even to say to hi when he'd pick them up.
I was upset he was behind on his alimony & I gave him a legite excuse b/c I told him I had let my tags expire & didnt want to be running around and get a ticket.
On this day though I had the feeling he would attempt to come see me esp. since the kids were not @ home. YEP! I was outside finishing putting on the xmas lights when he pulls up. I was sitting on the floor on the porch walkway w/ red and green candy canes surrounding me all around...
I looked up w/ a weird question look on my face?
X-You look nice sitting there w/ those lights! I thought I'd come & visit for a little bit & give you yr check. M-Whats up w/ u? X- (As he looks up @ the lights and the garland wrapped around the poles of the porch). It must be nice to have all this $ for this! M- These r the same lights I had @ the old house(our house). Ofcourse the past 2 yrs are a blurr to you! (The man cant remember anything he did or said back when he was so blinded by the GF)! He insisted he didnt remember and to not start w/ him. I said not starting anything and dropped it. He took one candy cane & hooked around my neck to pull me towards him...I knew what was in his mind, he had that look.
I thought good we r outside, he wont try anything, HA! he tried to kiss me & then he went inside to use the bathroom.I had to keep going in & out and while inside he planted a kiss & I kept my mouth shut when he bit me and had to open my mouth. I FELT NOTHING!! He said lets do it right here infront of the xmas tree! NO! I said, why he kept asking.
This kept going on for a half hour. I told him to put his stuff back inside his pants & go see yr girls yr late!
Men- is it the chase? What is it? Why risk it, for if he gets kicked out he will have no where to go (i think) & no $ to get a place.
